“Steve Gilborn, a ubiquitous stage, film and television actor best known as Ellen Degeneres’s sweet, befuddled father on the TV sitcom “Ellen”… died on Jan. 2 at his home in North Chatham, NY. He was 72.” – NY Times January 12, 2009
There are times when ordinary people can make a big, important difference in this wacko world of ours. Reading this obituary in today’s Times took me back to a time when a bunch of ordinary people stood up to make just such a difference in the war on homelessness and poverty. Steve Gilborn was not just one of that group but he was a key player, someone who really cared and by his caring touched a lot of lives on a cold wintery day in Manhattan.
It was the 80’s (I apologize but I cannot seem to recall the actual date) and my production company was just starting to take off. We were shooting some cool spots and making money and my partner, David Wilson was looking for an idea we could put on the reel. He came to me with an concept for a spot in support of the Coalition of the Homeless. He knew of an actor he had worked with before named Steve Gilborn who would be perfect and he had this off the wall concept. I didn’t know Steve at the time, except by his face which I had seen many times on spots and in the theater. Steve read the script and was in favor immediately. They worked on the script together. He never asked for anything – just to be sure the scheduling would work out for him.
It was going to cost a few bucks but if it worked it seemed like it would be good for everybody so I decided to pay the freight. We approached the Coalition who loved the idea and we got to work. First we would need a crew and so we reached out to one of our favorite DPs, Mike Negrin. Mike brought along his camera assistants and electrics. Jimmy Grubel, a big, gruff, curmudgeny key grip jumped on too and brought his guys. The shot required a crane underneath FDR Drive and so we needed help from the City (which we got) and General Camera (which we got in spades!) Everyone from the PA’s to the sound crew to the makeup artists worked for free and seemed happy to be involved. We got a Honey Wagon for the day and night for something like $400. We even got a ton of film from Kodak and processing from Joey V at Technicolor for free.
The afternoon of the shoot we lucked out with the weather and though everyone was cold spirits were high. Steve was made up as a homeless guy and gave a great performance. The copy was about a man who had once had a job on Wall Street but through some misfortune found himself on the streets. The spot could run today and be as poingnant as ever! Maybe more so! They should runthe damn spot now and see if it strikes a chord.
Steve Gilborn stood out in the cold dressed in a shabby overcoat and wool cap holding his hands over a fire we lit in a barrel and delivered those lines over and over until we got the crane move and the dialog synced just right. He never complained or asked to take a break once, despite the cold and the monotony of the seemingly endless takes we required.
The spot was a great success. Sally Kellerman did the perfect voice over. It ran for quite a while and helped bring attention to the work of the Coalition. In the end, as we had hoped, everyone benefitted. Steve Gilborn went on to more success in TV and on the stage. I never watched Ellen so I never had the pleasure of seeing him shine on that show but our paths would cross from time to time and we’d always say hello in that knowing way that says, “Remember when we did that crazy shoot in the cold?”
Steve Gilborn was more than an actor. He was a guy who cared about the world he lived in and though I am sure he did many other wonderful and generous things in his life on earth, I will always remember him as the guy under the highway freezing his ass off and fighting for the underprivilidged with dignity.